A few months ago I took a dog to an adoption event. The dog I handled was an American pit bull terrier named Jesse. I was careful when introducing him to new dogs, because we weren’t sure how he would do.

Jesse is pictured below and is up for adoption. He was a very good boy at the adoption event and did not cause any problems. Still, I was amazed by how careless some people were when introducing their pets to Jesse and the other rescue dogs. So many owners did not keep their dogs under control. A barking, lunging lab strangling itself on a buckle collar is going to cause problems even if he is “friendly.”

There were a couple instances where owners would allow their extremely hyper and out of control dogs to pull right up to Jesse head on. Since I was paying close attention and predicting these situations, I was always able to redirect Jesse so he wouldn’t try to match the other dog’s energy. That’s when a situation can easily escalate into aggression from either or both dogs.

pitbullHumans meet face to face with eye contact and a handshake. Naturally, this is how we tend to introduce dogs to one another. When friendly, socialized dogs are introduced face to face, they usually manage to be OK. They are not necessarily comfortable, but they deal with it. Problems occur when one dog is too excited or has any issues with leash aggression or dominance. That’s when head-on greetings can lead to a fight.

Luckily most dogs will be OK no matter how bad the humans screw up the greeting process. But here are some tips for introducing two dogs when one or both could have some issues with dominance, aggression or fear.

Tips for safely introducing two dogs

Exercise both dogs separately before they meet.

It depends on the dog, but a good 45-minute walk is ideal for most. Dogs with any kind of aggression issues should be walked for an hour or more before meeting another dog. The same goes with shelter or rescue dogs that have been kenneled for days or weeks. I ran with Jesse before the adoption event, and another volunteer had walked him earlier in the morning so he was good and tired before meeting other dogs. The less energy the dog has when it meets another dog, the better. Even though my mutt Ace is submissive, I almost always take him for a walk before he meets a new dog so he doesn’t bring extra excitement to the situation.

Walk the dogs together.

This is sometimes impossible to do if neither dog has had enough exercise. That’s why exercising the dogs separately first is a must. Then you can walk the dogs together as a pack. Do this before you allow the dogs to smell one another. Keep one dog on each side of you or walk side by side with the other person. Don’t allow the dogs to cross in front or behind you. After a short walk, then you can allow some casual sniffing but keep moving forward.

Stop and let the dogs smell one another.

After a short walk (5 to 20 minutes) with no issues, stop and let the dogs smell one another. Don’t worry so much about the embarrassing behaviors dogs do like butt sniffing. It’s usually best to let the dogs do their thing. We all know that dogs gather information about one another by sniffing.

As far as humping goes, I block the behavior with a quick “Hey!” or I snap my fingers. Dogs will naturally hump one another to establish who is dominant, but if not monitored the behavior can lead to a fight.

mutt-and-springer-spaniel1Learn to read dog body language.

I often watch Ace’s tail when we are out on walks. Normally when he’s in a relaxed, working mode, his tail is also relaxed and low. But when he sees another dog, his tail goes up. This doesn’t signal aggression, but it signals he is in an alert mode. Submissive or insecure dogs will have their tails very low or tucked between their legs, often wagging frantically as a sign of stress. Aggressive dogs often have their tail stiff and straight out.

After meeting another dog, Ace will also shake his whole body as though he’s just gotten out of a lake. This shows he’s ready to move on, as though he’s saying, “What’s next?” It’s kind of like letting out a sigh of relief after I meet a new person. The tension is gone and we can move on.

The most obvious sign of a playful, friendly dog is when he does a “play bow.” After Ace meets another dog, he usually proceeds to walk away and smell the grass. This “lack of interest” shows the other dog he is not a threat.

As for signs of aggression, watch for stiff body posture, fixated eyes, curled lips and raised hair.

Use appropriate training collars.

Having control over the situation is very important. A lunging, pulling, panting lab on a buckle collar will be hard for anyone to control. Sometimes a choke collar helps, but only if it’s used properly and stays high on the dog’s neck. Most dogs are easy to control on a pinch collar, which is what I usually use on new dogs. Head collars also work well, but it takes a dog awhile to get used to one. A dog Gentle Leader or Halti often has a calming effect on a dog. Ace sometimes wears his Gentle Leader in new situations for this reason.

Avoid small spaces.

Dogs can attack if they feel trapped and have nowhere to run. You also want to prevent one dog from cornering the other. If the dogs meet in an open area like a park, this shouldn’t be an issue.

Remain calm.

Don’t use an excited voice. In fact, don’t talk to the dogs at all. Talking gets them excited, and you want to have two calm dogs. At the same time, don’t allow too much tension in the leash. It will just make the dog resist you and pull away. It can also make the dog feel tense and more likely to strike out.

Introduce the dogs on neutral territory.

Dogs are territorial and can be possessive. It’s a bad idea to introduce them in a home or yard where one lives. Instead, introduce them in a park or parking lot where neither dog will find it necessarily to guard or protect “his” territory.

How not to introduce two dogs:

Don’t allow one dog to cower near you.

If one dog is insecure and using you as a guard or shield, keep moving. This is not cute behavior, it’s insecurity. You don’t want a fight to end up beneath or near you because you could be bitten. Dogs that don’t know how to socialize often end up getting attacked by other dogs who see them as weak. My old golden retriever was an insecure dog and would try to hide between my legs. Whenever I allowed her to do this, I was feeding into her insecurities, not helping her.

golden-retrieverDon’t allow dogs to guard you.

Often, one dog is possessive over the owner and the owner doesn’t even know it. I foster dogs and offer pet sitting in Fargo, and almost every time I have a new dog in the house, it tries to place itself between Ace and I. My parents’ golden (right) does the same thing and tries to hog all the attention by pushing Ace out of the way or claiming the ground at my feet. Guarding is not acceptable because the dog is trying to dominate both the other dog and the person. When you are introducing dogs, keep moving and be aware of signs of possessiveness over you!

Don’t use an excited voice.

You want to calm the dogs, not rile them up.

Don’t create tension in the leash.

Dogs pick up on our posture and body language more than we realize. Tension in the leash or in your body posture will only make the dogs feel tense. Be relaxed so they will also be relaxed.

Don’t overreact.

Yelling will only make things worse. If a fight does happen, it will always look and sound worse than it is. Yelling and getting worked up usually adds to the intensity. If the dogs do get into a minor scuffle, don’t separate them right away. Take a step back, take them for a longer walk together and try again. This is the only way they are going to learn to get along. Separating them will not teach the dogs anything.

Don’t let the dogs approach head on.

When animals are challenging one another, they use direct eye contact and a head-on approach. Don’t set up a fight for your dog by introducing him this way to other animals. When I had Jesse at the adoption event, I made sure not to allow other dogs to approach Jesse head on. I always redirected Jesse’s attention to me instead.

Put away all food and toys.

Don’t have anything available that could cause possessiveness or a fight. I’ve seen Ace act possessive over a water bowl! Avoid fights at all costs by putting anything away that could cause a dog to be possessive such as a tennis ball, raw hide or food you are eating.

What tips do you have for introducing dogs?

5/6/10 update: Jesse has been adopted!

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  1. Katherine F. on May 7, 2009

    This is a topic I wish more dog owners were aware of. We have an 11 month old pit mix who seems to have some issues meeting other dogs. She isn’t interested in the butt sniffing unless encouraged to do so and will just try to jump in the other dogs’ faces. We try to always circle her around so that it isn’t a head-on approach. We are still working with her on it but are constantly frustrated by other dog owners who just let their dogs approach her head-on with no warning to us. She usually freaks out at that point and we remove her from the situation. sigh.

  2. Lindsay Stordahl Author on May 7, 2009

    Ugh. Dog owners can be so clueless. At least you are aware of the right way to handle the situation. Hopefully others can learn from you. Good luck with your pitbull mix!

  3. Apryl DeLancey on May 7, 2009

    Great info – I have a colleague with a dog that she is trying to teach socialization. She warns other humans that her dog isn’t necessarily friendly but they still insist on bringing their dogs close to hers. Of course, they are always surprised when her dog snaps. Doh!

  4. Janj on May 7, 2009

    When we got Chamois, the generic dog, Misty pouted for most of the day. Then she just decided that Chamois was HER pet and took over as alpha dog. Chamois was her slave from then on.

  5. Lindsay Stordahl Author on May 7, 2009

    I’ve noticed Ace’s socialization skills improve over the last year from being around more dogs. He used to be really shy and would drool and tuck his tail between his legs. Now he will actually encourage other dogs to play, which is good to see.

    Jan, I know what you mean about the pouting. Ace does the same thing. But then it’s usually the other dog who takes over.

  6. Biggie-Z on May 7, 2009

    We are working on this ALL THE TIME with Biggie. The problem is that as a guarding breed, he goes on high alert the most when we are nervous, which makes him get even more protective, which makes us even more nervous. Also, because there are SO many people and dogs (and weird people with weird dogs), it is often hard to control the dog-dog interactions.

    Biggie does great on lead with any dog he has met at least once off lead. If they haven’t met before, it is a much touchier situation. Your suggestion about walking the dogs together is a great idea – we do this with a cane corso in the neighborhood who dominated Biggie when he was still an intact (70 lb) pup. Now that they are about the same size, Biggie won’t put up with it and Truman is afraid to charge him, so in the dog run they look at each other and snarl and bark but neither one is willing to make the first move. But when we walk them on leash together, they are fine!

  7. Esther Garvi on May 8, 2009

    Here in Africa, the dogs are all lose, so when you encounter another dog, you’re the only human. It took me some time before I realized that I have to be very clear on the stance that the pack is going to take, as my dogs follow me, and never the other way around (for years, I couldn’t quite understand why my dogs let themselves be bullied by other dogs, but that was simply out of respect for me). When a lose dog comes charging my way, I will tell my dogs come back to base (me) and then I will tell the other dog to go back home. Knowing it’s on the street and not on home turf, it always obeys. In the bush, Sheba keeps very close to us (riders) and is totally uninterested in socializing with other dogs even if they are friendly, but that’s her job. On home turf (our garden and the street to the office), she’s confident and playful, winning over most dogs with time. There is one aggressive dog that has sneak-attacked both of my dogs, and so whenever I see him, I just order him back to his gate. He knows I’m not afraid of him, and I don’t care how much he growls and snarls while he makes his retreat, as long as he does it. I don’t mind if my dogs are next to me when I order him back, as they know they’re not allowed to charge unless I say so. But in one way, it’s easier to deal with dogs without other human intervention to keep in mind than one’s own. We humans have a very powerful impact on our dogs, and I know many dog owners who are totally oblivious to the signals they are sending out. Dogs involuntarily feed on our state of mind, whether it be passivity, frustration or uncertainty. An army can never be more strategic than its leader, so assuming responsibility for one’s dog starts with asking oneself, what kind of signals am I sending out? Being calm is the way to go.

  8. Lindsay Stordahl Author on May 8, 2009

    Biggie, my dog is obviously not a guarding breed, but he will still bark when we are sitting at a park and people walk by. He never barks or even really acknowledges people or dogs when we are on a walk, but if we stop to read or eat lunch or something and someone passes, I can’t get Ace to stop barking. I tell him “no” and make him lie down and he continues to growl and do those quiet “woofs.” What’s the best thing to do? Redirect him with food? I guess I will start carrying treats in my pockets again.

    Great advice Esther! I’ve been out walking dogs and have had loose dogs charge me. It makes a big difference if the charging dogs knows I’m in control of the situation or not. If I’m nervous or insecure, the dog knows. When I’m confident and tell the dog, “No!” and step forward towards it, it always retreats or stops. The biggest factor is having respect from the dog I am walking because the other dog will read that.

  9. LeslieN on June 4, 2009

    I have this hound mix that will not meet any other dog but head on and then she has to smell their behind which I am okay with she’s fine and the other dogs are also. The other day when I was walking my dog she met this lab that did not want my dog to smell (lab) behind and the lab coward near the owner and so we moved on. Then we passed the lab again and I did not want the dogs to meet again so I had my dog leash tight to pass but the owner wanted the lab and my dog to meet again. My dog lunged and snapped at the lab. Was my dog trying to show dominance over the lab because she has not done that before? She did not bite but the lab coward even more to the point that she was behind her owner. Now I feel bad but I knew that she did not like the fact that the lab did not let my dog smell her behind. So was this my fault and should I not let her meet any more dogs? Or was this my dog’s behavior to the situation? What should I do the next time?

  10. Lindsay Stordahl Author on June 5, 2009

    Dogs will often act out negatively around insecure dogs because an insecure dog gives them more power. That lab was clearly insecure and hiding behind its owner. Your dog was also likely responding to your tension in the leash, which was telling her she had a reason to be tense and “on guard.” She was the one in control at that moment, not you. You should try to encourage your dog not to approach other dogs head on, but from the side, and make sure you are relaxed and in control. I would keep introducing her to more dogs to reinforce the proper way to approach them. It sounds like she’s usually OK, so hopefully this was a one time incident.

  11. LeslieN on June 5, 2009

    Thank you! Today I tried the way you said and it went by great. But we did not meet any dogs that was insecure, but I will keep introducing her to other dogs because she acts better at home when she meet at least one other dog.

  12. Lindsay Stordahl Author on June 6, 2009

    I’m glad it went well yesterday! The more dogs you meet successfully, the better it will go.

  13. Jen Schuster on October 8, 2009

    I agree with the comment that people do not know how to intro dogs. I always here from people, “Oh he’s/she’s friendly.” It really upsets me that dispite years of training and positive reinforcement, my border collie does not like dogs running up to her. Their dog may not be agressive, but mine is. She also has a right to be walked. So those who may think they can control thier dog off leash, they cannot from 50 yards, I promise.

  14. Lindsay Stordahl Author on October 9, 2009

    Yeah people can be so clueless. Just because their dog is friendly does not mean it should be running up to random dogs. Even a normally friendly dog can get defensive when a hyper lab comes bounding up out of nowhere. Most people can’t control their dogs from two feet away, let alone 50 yards.

  15. neisha on December 4, 2009

    i have been incare of my pit mix marley…she is really a charming girl but she has not had much socialization with other dogd…we live in a neighor hood that dogs are not leashed…marly was happily playing the other dogs in neighborhood..she seemed so happy…there was another dog in the pack that started aggresion with a small femaLE dog and marley startedto join in…i was devested..spelling not right…she was fine until the other dog started to pick on the smaller dog…is this a clue to me to just keep my marly on leash as all dogs are supposed to be…theis other agressive dog alwAYS PICKS ON THIS LITLE DOG…WHEY DID MARLEY FOLLOW HIS LEAD..UP UNTIL THAT TIME MARLEY WAS PLAYING WITH THE LITTLE DOG……

  16. Lindsay Stordahl Author on December 4, 2009

    Dogs will often gang up on weaker dogs. If this little dog is at all insecure or very submissive, then it would not surprise me that this other dog began acting aggressive towards the small dog, even if it started out as rough playing. Your dog simply joined in. It’s easy for playing to escalate to aggression, especially with a group of dogs that do not have good social skills.

    If the little dog was the one acting aggressive first, the other dogs were matcing that energy.

    The best thing you can do to improve your dog’s social skills is to let her interact with as many dogs as possible. But, make sure it is in a safe, supervised manner. It sounds like your neighborhood is a bit of a free for all, and I would be very careful about letting your dog play so freely. Since she is part pitbull, people will already be judging her. Try arranging smaller groups of dogs to play with your dog or have her meet, walk with or play with one dog at a time.

    • duckie on December 28, 2012

      Question, i have two dogs
      they got into a huge fight where a tooth was lost and stitches were needed. They had faught befor but we would never seperate them. this time we did so they could heal plus we moved a day after an it was just easiyest (now i regret this)
      and we are wondering how to introduce them again.
      i got bit in the process of them fighting last time. and am a little nervious but love both my dogs an want to work with them.
      one is 6years old low energu

    • duckie on December 28, 2012

      Question, i have two dogs
      they got into a huge fight where a tooth was lost and stitches were needed. They had faught befor but we would never seperate them. this time we did so they could heal plus we moved a day after an it was just easiyest (now i regret this)
      and we are wondering how to introduce them again.
      i got bit in the process of them fighting last time. and am a little nervious but love both my dogs an want to work with them.
      One is 6years old rotti mix low energy
      the
      Other is a pittbull mix high energy who is 2years old.

  17. Heather on July 10, 2010

    Hi there,
    Love hearing all these stories. Here’s mine. I have 2 7 month puppies. They are brother and sister, and I live in Saudi Arabia. I brought them from Canada, and unfortunately, although I had done lots of reading before, obviously not enough. They were with their litter mates until 12 weeks old, and so probably fairly socialized, but once we got them, over a period of 2 weeks, they were only together, and fairly coddled by my two children. When we arrived back in Saudi, I was busy trying to house train etc. and now when we go for walks, (all dogs are leashed here)they really flip out when they see or hear another dog. They will bark at people, but not for long, or be aggressive. I have taken them to training classes, but even there, it takes almost 45 minutes to calm them down to try any training techniques. I diligently walk them every morning for at least 30 minutes, but what I find is again, other owners who do not understand that meeting head on is not ok. Even when walked, they will still completely go beserk over another sighting of a dog. Yesterday both of them separately met another dog in the neighborhood. This other dog was SO gentle in its approach to each of my dogs I was amazed. My male, after barking up a storm, eventually turned his back on the other dog. My female also barked a lot, and tried to lunge, but eventually lay on her back and did the total submissive mode. I know this is not necessarily a good thing, but I kind of feel like I would rather they did that than be aggressive. The problem was that the owner was totally dominated by her dog. And really didnt seem to even get that she should hold it back at all. It was like she couldnt hold onto the leash. Anyway, it all turned out ok, and I would like for them all to meet again, but certainly not with both of my pups at the same time! ANY SUGGESTIONS WOULD BE APPRECIATED! Hard to socialize them without wondering if the dogs I know about through friends are actually stable and able to handle mine.

  18. Lindsay Stordahl Author on July 12, 2010

    The fact that your dogs eventually show submission to other dogs tells me that the barking they do initially is out of insecurity. Your dogs are not naturally dominant or aggressive, they just need to learn to meet other dogs. Unfortunately a lot of people allow their dogs to run up to other dogs head on. I would seek out people who seem to have calm dogs and ask if your dogs can meet them (probably not together, as you said). Keep up the work with the training classes, because its good for them to learn to be obedient around other dogs. Below are two posts I’ve written. One is about leash aggression, and one is about socializing dogs. You may find a few tips that will help you.

    http://www.thatmutt.com/2010/05/18/dog-leash-aggression/
    http://www.thatmutt.com/2009/06/15/socializing-my-dog/

  19. Kesley on February 18, 2012

    Hi, I have a 13month old full blooded pitt. I just got him this past week he has never been around other dogs or people he was kept in an 8 by 8 pin until I agreed to adopt him. My mother is terrified of pitts and I’m not sure how to start introducing them. Can you give me a few pointers since I have only had him for a few days .

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on February 18, 2012

      Is your dog friendly around new people? If he is, then just keep him from jumping on her. Have him on a leash the whole time and distract him with toys or treats. She will see how sweet he is and come around.

  20. Dog Diva on March 18, 2012

    Not sure why you would use a prong on a dog to introduce it to another dog. I should think that if a dog gets corrected, accidentally or otherwise, at the moment the other dog begins greeting behavior, that the dog could assume the pain was caused by the approaching dog. That certainly isn’t what I’d want my dog to learn.

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on March 24, 2012

      I have recommended just about every tool for one dog or another. Gentle Leaders can be great. Haltis can work well, and so can prong collars.

  21. MissMims on April 4, 2012

    Hi Lindsay,
    I have a 7yr old staffordshire bull terrier (I have had her for two years) who hated all other dogs but will now tolerate them as long as they are respectful to her. She still has her moments but she knows I wont tolerate her being aggressive. Sometimes I muzzle her in high density dog areas just to be on the safe side as she can sometimes find it a bit overwhelming, the muzzle calms her instantly and she just wont bother trying to make contact. Here in the UK staffies have a very bad rep so sometimes it’s easier to do that than get an earful from the cockerpoo brigade!
    I would love some advice if possible as we are going to be fostering a male staffie in a couple of weeks for an untold amount of time (if he fits in he will most likely stay) He is not neutered and is described as ‘unpredictable’ with other dogs. His current owner now doesnt let him off lead and avoids contact with other dogs. He lives with another staffie, an elderly male, with no problems. We walked (paralell on leash) on Sunday and the dogs dutifully ignored eachother which is good, until we got back to the house and the children came out – then ensued a row over attention as My dog was getting cuddles from His family… She is equally to blame as she has a bit of a ‘little princess’ attitude sometimes.
    We are due to walk again this evening (we have a two week ‘transition’ period before the family move to NZ) and I would really appreciate any tips and advice, I think the trouble will start when he officially moves into to our house but we have fostered previously and used crates with both dogs (and hundreds of hours of leash walks!) to intergrate the new dog and let our dog understand that this is whats going to happen!
    I wonder if having him neutered (which I will do straight away) will have any affect? He is 6yrs old and I think half his problem is his ‘learnt’ behaviour from his owners who have kept him away from other dogs because he might react to them.
    Many thanks.

  22. Bec on April 24, 2012

    I have a 9 year old Staffy x Dalmation (Cobain) who lives with my parents, and my house mate has a 2 year old Staffy X Kelpie (Hex) who is much smaller than Cobain because Cobain has taken the dalmation size. I wanted to introduce them to each other because Hex gets very bored while we are at work and she doesn’t like other dogs that much, this way she would have a play mate. We introduced Cobain and Hex through a fence that they could see each other through, initially and both were off lead as Hex doesn’t like harnesses or leads much. They were aggressively barking at each other but we were able to calm Cobain down to a point where she would sit and take treats off mum . Once I put Hex on a lead she stopped barking but was running up and down the fence excitedly but still in an aggressive way, so there was improvement.

    What suggestions would you have for future meetings as we really want them to be able to get along and play? It would also be great for if my house mate and I have to move but can’t find a place right away that we can keep her there. My parents have a dog run in their yard for when Cobain had an operation and couldn’t run around too much, so even if we could get them to calmly be one one each side of that, that would be fantastic as they can see each other but can’t get to each other.

    • Bec on April 24, 2012

      I’d like to add that they are a while away from being trusted to meet, Hex’s excited behaviour was still aggressive. Hex has met with a smaller dog before and there was no problems, but that dog seems to be the only dog she likes and Cobain I don’t see as a dog who would attack unless attacked. Cobain was also aggressive initially but was able to be settled.

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on April 25, 2012

      Take them on a long walk side by side. Don’t let them sniff head on. Just walk forward. Let one sniff the other from behind and after walking a bit with no issues, perhaps let them sniff in the face for just a second or so. Take things slowly. Walking together is your best be, though.

  23. Amber on July 8, 2012

    I have a Black lab/border collie mix. I’ve had him since he was 5 months, he is now 6 yrs old. He’s only ever been around 1 other dog. That was when i lived with my dad. I am now trying o introduce him to my boyfriends dog, which is a blue heeler mix, he’s 3. The problem is my dog seems soo aggressive. We tried a meeting once, but they got in a fight. Do i try again? My boyfriends dog is fine, he wants to play. But mine just tries to stay away and shows his teeth. When we try to encourage sniffing and saying hi, my collie just gets upset. At a loss, bcuz we eventually want to move in together. But we want the pups to get along first. Is it too late, since my dogs almost 7?

  24. Armando Colon on September 17, 2012

    I have a 8mo old female German Shepherd/Pit mix who is EXTERELY hyper. Whenever she meets another dog even in a calm state most dogs do not seem to like her, she is constantly picked on. She seems to have no concept of personal space. However she is not aggressive at all.
    We just got a new 10wk old pure bred German Shepherd puppy. He is definately the more dominate one of the 2. We tried introducing the 2 of them slowly but generally one of 2 things happens 1. With her being hyper active she seems to push the bounderies with him with regard to personal space. She likes to invade his space. OR 2. He tries to exert his dominance by mounting her which she does not like. She retaliates by moving quickly and not allowing him to get behind him she also swings her head towards him but doesnt bite. He on the other hand once this takes place will attempt to latch on to some part of her. We could really use some good advice for getting the 2 to get along.

  25. Helen on September 19, 2012

    We have a beautiful pitbull female who is 8 months old. At home, she is the dominant dog (we have a male staffie too). When we are out and meet other people with dogs, she runs up to them and flops down in front of the other dog/s in a submissive but excited state. This normally results in the other dogs growling and snapping at her – she got bit in the face yesterday. How can I teach her the correct way to introduce herself to other dogs? I think she may have been bullied by the other pups when she was a lot younger??? Please help if you can. Thanks,Helen

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on September 21, 2012

      Sounds like she might be greeting them with too much excited energy. You could definitely try increasing her exercise. Introduce her to lots of calm, easygoing dogs who will help her learn to be calm. Also consider obedience classes where she will get to be around other dogs in a structured way so she learns some self control while walking near others.

  26. Terri Watkins on September 24, 2012

    I have two 6 year old small spoiled dogs. Both nuerted and get along for the most part. The Yorkie is toy and food aggressive and has started becoming territorial of sleeping areas. I have just acquired a 9 week old toy female poodle and my life has been hell. I worry about the puppy’s safety as the other two act as if she is an animal of prey. They have to be kept separated at all times. I have kept the puppy crated unless I am present with her. Please help. I about to give up and find a home for her and I already love her but I don’t want her traumatized.

  27. Lindsey Madden on November 28, 2012

    I have a 9 year old Jindo mix and my brother in law has a 2 year old boxer that he suddenly needs a temporary 1-2 month home for. My Jindo mix is roughly 50 lbs and the boxer is 85 lbs. The problem is that my Jindo has a history of aggression with other dogs. Looking back over the years I think I have determined that she is aggressive mostly with other females and dogs larger than her. When I first adopted her she was a year old and had been returned twice. She had a lot of energy and I started taking her to a dog park. She would mount a lot of the dogs, mostly the bigger dogs but she did go after a couple of dogs at the park which made me stop going. I then decided to take her to the petstore training classes thinking she needed socialization. The trainer decided there was no problem of aggression after walking her by the other dogs and there being no reaction. Once they were all loose my dog attacked a lab and she was then banned from the petstore. She also slipped out of her collar once when I was walking her and without warning sprinted after a collie and attacked it outright. I kept her away from dogs after that but then later when she was about 7 years old I introduced her to a friends Irish Setter (about the same size as her). It was a submissive male and she never attacked him and showed almost no interest in him, even keeping them in the same room.

    The boxer isn’t aggressive and while I want to say he is submissive (my husband and brother in law think he is) he is too high energy for me to really tell. I’m worried that since she was never socialized she will mistake his playing as aggression. When we introduce them I’m thinking that my husband needs to be the one to hold her leash since I’m worried she can sense my anxiety and that may put her on edge. Is there anything we should look for from her as a sign that she is not ok with the boxer?

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on November 28, 2012

      Definitely walk them together first, side by side without direct eye contact. That will give them a chance to get used to each other and they will be able to smell one another at that point without getting too close.

      If the boxer is really high energy, your dog might snap at him to get him to stop. Try not to let him jump all over her and get too excited, as that might be overwhelming.

      If she is licking her lips a lot, panting heavily or avoiding eye contact, she may be stressed, so keep the intro really slow and calm if that is the case. If she is very forward with a high tail, raised hackles and staring eyes, you will also want to take things slowly. Try to defuse any tension by whistling or clicking to get them to look away from each other and at you instead. Try to avoid tense leashes and leash corrections, too, as that often triggers a reaction.

      Basically try to keep the entire atmosphere as calm and relaxed as possible! Easier said than done, right? If there is an initial squabble, it may defuse instantly and then they might be fine. Don’t get too worried if things aren’t perfect right away.

      Bet of luck!

      • Lindsey Madden on November 28, 2012

        Thank you!!! We did The meeting tonight and walked them. We wanted to give my jindo more time (she was very tense even after 30 min) but the boxer’s owner was impatient and brought him in too soon. She snapped and tore part of his ear off :( After she did that though he didn’t fight back and they have been fine and even playing for these few hours. Definitely not leaving them unsupervised ever but the first part is over. Thanks for your help! Your site is really great :)

        • Lindsay Stordahl Author on December 17, 2012

          Thanks for letting me know how it went! Sorry to hear about that initial snap, ut glad to hear things are going better now.

  28. ariana on December 13, 2012

    I have a two year old pit lab mix shes our lil luvbug but hasnt had socialization with othet dogs and is reactive she whines barks fur up on her back but I dont think its super aggressive ive never let her get close enuff to another dog to find out though we are rescueing a 10wk male pitbull puppy and would like to know the best way to introduce them

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on December 17, 2012

      She might be just fine with a puppy since he will not be threatening to her (as far as dominance). At the same time, though, it’s best to introduce them slowly just to be sure she is OK with him. I would keep both dogs on leashes and prevent them from charging right up to each other’s faces. Try to encourage calm behavior from each dog.

      If your dog gets very tense, don’t react by pulling back on the leash. Instead, try getting her attention focused away from the pup by whistling or holding up a treat. Praise her for looking away. Don’t let any playful behavior get too “exciting” quite yet. No rough housing or play wrestling. Keep them calm when they are together until you know they are OK.

  29. Sue on February 25, 2013

    Hi, I have an 8 month old dalmatian, who I would dearly love to stud at least once, but I have a problem…. He keeps trying to hump certain dogs, which is not good, some owners get quite mad, does anybody have any tips to stop him doing this. Many thanks

  30. Ziad K. on March 5, 2013

    I have an Alaskan Husky and my friend has a Pitbull x Shepard and they are both dominant females, when they first met they were fine, sniffing butts and what not, but each one would try and be dominant over the other (head over the shoulder, trying to ‘hump’) they got into a scuffle, with both dogs getting a little nipped on the legs, they were sort of ok after that, but still kept trying to be dominant over each other and i have a fear of my dog or my friends dog getting injured, my dog is fine with other dogs because she is playful and enjoys to run, she asserts her dominance and then plays. but with the pit they dont seem to be able to just play, each want to assert dominance and they end up fighting. im not sure what i can do, ive tried to find what to do online but i couldn’t and you seem to really know whats going on.. help please, this is a close friend of mine and i would love to have our dogs running and swimming together.. im just afraid that one will get hurt.. (my dog is not spayed, she is 2 years old and the pit mix is a year old)

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on March 5, 2013

      It’s hard to say without actually observing the dogs, and you may want to consider hiring a trainer in your area.

      One thing I would suggest is to keep them on leashes for now and do lots of walking together, side by side as a group. This puts them both in a follower position, assuming you and your friend are the leaders. It will help them do something fun together, without worrying about dominance.

      Then, back at home, keep them on leashes and work on having them sit quietly or lie down quietly next to you while you watch TV or do whatever. And then after all goes well for a few days or weeks doing both these things, try allowing them to play briefly in the yard but only after a long walk first. I think these things might ease some of the tension and help them find more of a “pack” state of mind.

      And also, make sure both dogs have a high level of obedience. Make sure they can lie down and stay on command for up to a half-hour. Make sure they know “heel” and “come.” All of these things build a stronger relationship with the human as the leader. You also want to make sure both dogs are well exercised.

  31. Sarah on April 16, 2013

    Hi Lindsay.
    I have a 2 and a half year old American Pitbull Terrier who likes to lunge and whine at other dogs when he’s on a leash. The part hat causes problems is that in my neighborhood where we walk several dogs are allowed to roam off leash and not fenced by their owners. Other than timeing our wals and runs to when I think they won’t be out we are stuck inside. I’d also like to be able to take him in walks with my friend’s standard poodle but I’m not sure how to have them meet. He does well with other dogs off leash at the vet’s playcare as long as they don’t get snarky with him first. I’m not sure how to introduce him to new dogs and walk him with other dogs around (other dogs on and off leash). We have trainer but we’re working on our door agression with people other than immediate family.
    Thanks in advance of any advice.

  32. Katie T. on June 28, 2013

    Hi,

    I have a 2 year old chocolate labrador who loves to play. Whenever he sees other dogs on a walk, he gets very excited and pulls like mad. All he wants to do is say hello, but when he actually meets the dog, he starts getting on top of them and…. Is this normal? He is fixed, but it gets old after a while, and we want him to play and interact in OTHER ways. Should I discourage it, or let them sort themselves out?
    Thanks for the advice

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on June 28, 2013

      I would discourage it usually because the other dog (or the dog’s owner anyway) won’t appreciate it. Instead of jerking on the leash (which can just add tension to the situation) try getting your dog’s attention by distracting him before he makes contact with the other dog. Or use your body to gently body block him by stepping between the two dogs and pushing your dog back a bit.

  33. Bernie on July 30, 2014

    Thank you for this information. A relative has a usually friendly and lovable black lab/pit mix he’s large, 4, and energetic, which doesn’t work too well given that the owner is not the most energetic and when it comes to training they are uneducated, too lax, and when it’s needed it’s nonexistent.

    We tried to take the dog to the beach but upon spotting a dog in the distance he was too aggressive for us to stay. And the control collar choked him too much causing his mouth to foam as he refused to stop tugging. I fear the idea of us using it improperly, I fear the idea even more of someone else in the family continuing to use it improperly enough to cause damage with the misguided idea that it’s training him. Personally I dislike the idea of a choke collar on him to reign in his natural energy when he hasn’t really been trained in the first place.

    • Lindsay Stordahl Author on July 30, 2014

      You could try a no-pull harness or a Gentle Leader/Halti-type collar. However, I have a feeling he would just paw at anything over his mouth. The no-pull harness could work though.

  34. Kim on September 15, 2014

    Thank you so much for posting this article! It was by far the most helpful one I was able to find. We’re introducing our current dog to a new dog we’re trying to adopt tomorrow and I really feel a lot more at ease that I’m going into it more prepared!! I had so much anxiety because I know he has a little humping issue when he first meets new dogs…Glad to know this is not “weird” or “abnormal”…We will take all of your advice and I’m sure it will go well!!!

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