Note: This is a guest post by Kathleen Chamberlin. Kathleen is the author of “Marcy Mary: The Memoirs of a Dachshund-American Princess, The Early Years.” The book is about the adventures of a dachshund puppy adopted by a suburban family. You can learn more about Kathleen and her book at http://marcymary.com.
The loss of a loved one is traumatic, a time when many of us call upon our faith. Pets are loved ones and I’m convinced that faith is meant to sustain us when a pet dies.
I was reminded of the depth of a pet’s loss as I watched a “fifty something” woman with huge tears glistening in her eyes. She was telling me about her childhood dog, Petey. This faithful collie walked her to school every morning and was waiting to walk her home when the school day was over.
Although Petey, who had become Old Pete, died many years ago, his loss was still keenly felt in the heart of a schoolgirl who was now a mature woman.
![TahoeDog[1]](http://www.thatmutt.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/TahoeDog1.jpg "Kathleen and Trixie-Noodle")
Recently, my husband and I were walking our two dachshunds, Noodle and Archie, through the neighborhood. A woman was walking toward us. When she spotted the dogs, she put her hands to her mouth and uttered a heartfelt “oooh.”
Within seconds she was greeting the dogs, petting them and silently crying. We were soon joined by her husband who could not keep his hands off Noodle, an auburn mini with a gray muzzle. Noodle was lavishing this stranger with many wet kisses. They told us that Tootsie, their auburn mini had died just a few weeks before.
They took out a cell phone and showed us a picture of Tootsie. She did indeed bear an uncanny resemblance to Noodle.
Was this a chance meeting? Perhaps. I will say this: these people were visitors in the neighborhood who just happened to be outside when we were walking the dogs.
Last year, a dear friend from across the country was visiting us when his cherished cat died. We supported him with listening, love and prayer, but the visit was touched by the deep pain of his loss. As he spoke of Sprocket, it was clear that the bond he had with his feline companion was very strong.
A few months later, I received an e-mail from this friend. He and his wife heard Sprocket walk across the hardwood floors. At times, my friend said he sensed Sprocket’s presence.
I didn’t think much about this at the time, thinking it under “maybe.” But then I had a similar personal experience.
My husband is a pragmatist, very down to earth, and not given to unusual experiences. But we were sitting on our sofa, with Archie and Noodle snoozing contentedly between us, when we heard the sound of a dachshund flapping its ears — a very distinctive sound.
My husband went to investigate. No one was in the house and no one was outside. Was it our beloved Loopy-doxie, who had left us not long before? Does the special bond between us and pets that have passed sometimes breach time and space? I simply don’t know.
As the stories above illustrate, the loss of a pet is particularly poignant. Those of us who believe in a hereafter may wonder if our pets will join us there. We envision a place of happiness, fulfillment and joy that a benevolent Creator has prepared for us. Here we will rejoin loved ones.
I am certain that a Creator, who cares enough about us to prepare this wonderful place, will also reunite us with our cherished pets. This belief helps me tremendously when memories intrude and I need to hold Tigger the cat or Loopy the dog — our dearly departed — just one more time.
Kathleen is pictured with her dachshund Trixie-Noodle.
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November 5th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
In our house we know that our best friends will be with us again. How could any ‘heaven’ be perfect without our 4 legged loved ones?
We still hear Tomarra’s feet tap dancing on the floor. Sometimes people may think it’s all in our head but, we think it is all in our heart.
November 5th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Oh thanks for this wonderful guest post! Love your weinerdogs!
November 5th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Thanks, Lori!
November 5th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
All dogs go to heaven, right?
November 5th, 2009 at 9:36 pm
The fact that we will meet our pets on the other side is expressed in my book: Tom’s Journey-The Cat That God Sent To Look After Me.
November 6th, 2009 at 9:22 am
Great post! I was just thinking of my kitty Inso that was only with us for 3 years this week. He was such a cool dude and is still missed so much. I wish my Gus could have met him – they would have really hit it off.
November 6th, 2009 at 10:05 am
Great post! My husband and I spent some time recently talking about our Miss Girl who we had to euthanize right before our relocation to Oregon. We miss her greatly – and each of us has “seen” her or sensed her recently. I’m not a religious person, but I do believe that our animals come back and look in on us!
November 6th, 2009 at 11:03 am
I wholeheartedly agree that losing a pet is very traumatic. I lost a toy poodle at the age of 18. I had to put one dog, my 12 year-old Shih Tzu, Snooks, to sleep. That was the hardest day of my life.
I have combined my love of pets and my hobby of machine embroidery into a business, http://www.Pets-R-Loved.com. For those grieving the loss of a pet – I offer at least 2 options for embroidery of “The Rainbow Bridge” (author unknown). I also offer memorial pendants (at reasonable costs) whereby the cremains of your pet are fused with dichronic glass to form a beautiful pendant – you can “wear your pet close to your heart”. Go to my website and search in left-hand menu bar for “In Loving Memory” – all the information is there in pictures, FAQ, etc., etc.
Thank you so much – did you know that November is national Adopt-A-Senior Dog month? – go to your local humane society and fine a new “best friend”.
Rosalyn
Owner, Pets-R-Loved
November 6th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
Thanks for drawing our attention to your book, Carl.
Apryl, I often think of how my old golden retriever and Ace would’ve been such good friends. But their lives did not overlap.
Thanks Tammy. It’s nice to hear your opinion. I think we have similar views when it comes to stuff like this.
Thanks for the resource, Rosalyn.
November 12th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Great post. At a time when loss has so many faces, it is often our pets with their consistent adoration that get us through. I look forward to seeing Rex.
November 13th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I can’t imagine a “heaven” without my dogs.
November 14th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Wonderful words. But then that’s what you do. You are so eloquent. Can’t wait for the next book. Noodle’s, Archie’s, Jazz’s, Lola’s, Daisy’s, what a great place heaven will be.