One of the main reasons dogs and cats end up in shelters every year is because people buy a pet before they are committed to care for it. I adopted my mutt last year, and it was difficult for me to wait until I found the right dog. I wanted to rescue every dog at every shelter. But it was worth it to take the time and really think things through, because I found a dog that fits well into my lifestyle.
Once you’ve decided you are getting a dog, or another dog, select a reasonable amount of time and say to yourself, “I will not get a dog until then.” For me, it was two months. No matter how many cute, “perfect,” needy and homeless dogs and puppies you see, do not get one until the two months is up. This will give you enough time to find the dog that is really perfect for you, and you will be prepared for the dog once you bring him home.
Next, come up with a list of criteria. With so many dogs out there, you will find one that meets everything on your list. My list was something like this: Must like cats, make a good running buddy, be OK living in an apartment, not be a barker and be house trained. I found plenty of dogs that met all but one of these requirements. So, as hard as it was, I moved onto the next dog. There are always more dogs out there. Always.
If there is a certain breed you are interested in, learn all you can about it. Read books about the breed and talk to breeders and owners of that kind of dog. You will probably have friends, family member and coworkers convincing you to get a certain dog or a certain breed. You will have to ignore most of them. Suddenly, just because everyone knows you are looking for a dog, it will seem like everywhere you turn, puppies are available.
Once you have an idea of what kind of dog you are looking for, start searching online and in classifieds. Whether you are buying from a breeder or adopting from a shelter, look at more than one dog. Go to more than one shelter and more than one breeder. Look at as many dogs as you can, but never buy one on the spot. Always wait at least 24 hours to think it over. The dog will still be there, and if it’s not, there are plenty of other dogs looking for homes. Remember your two-month rule.
When you find a dog you are interested in, spend some time with it. Take it for as long a walk as possible. Then ask all the questions you can about the dog. What is her history? What are her parents like? How much training does she have? Does she have any health issues? How much exercise does she need? Is she house trained? Is she dominant or submissive? Is she a barker? Is she kennel trained? Does she get along with cats?
All of your time, patience and energy put into finding the right dog will be well worth it in the end.
in your “about” section, you asked what your lab mix, Ace, could be mixed with. Based on his look, his markings, and his muscular back legs, I thinj he might be mixed with a super sweet li’l pit bull. We have a pit named Angus who’s muscles and markings and sleekness look very similar. Ace’s head, though, is totally lab – he doesnt have the big square pit head. Anyway, Ace looks super sweet
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Sometimes I think Ace looks like he has a little pit bull in him too. I am not sure. Thanks for your input.
I’d never be able to wait 2 months! My pets have all been spontanious, but I’ve also always been very aware of what temperment worked best for me my lifestyle. I’ve always felt a chemistry with the ones I’ve taken home. They have all been wonderful.
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