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Set your new dog up for success – prevent accidents and fights

I am excited to announce I brought home my newest foster dog Monday afternoon.

Barkley is a 2-year-old Yorkie/Lhasa Apso/Maltese mix. More info about him coming soon, but he has been a good little guy so far.

I’m not trying to take away any credit from Barkley. I believe he really is a good dog, but part of the reason he has been so good is because I haven’t given him any opportunities to be “bad.”

When I welcome a new dog to our home, no matter what anyone tells me, I always assume the same:

1. The dog is not housebroken.

2. The dog is not good with dogs or cats.

I make all kinds of other assumptions, too. I always assume the dog will chew things he shouldn’t and that he’ll be possessive of food and toys. I assume he’ll cry when alone and that he’ll bark at other dogs on walks. I assume he has had no obedience training.

When I get a new foster dog, sometimes I won’t know anything about him other than what he looks like. In Barkley’s case, I got to meet his previous owner and she gave me lots of information about him. This was very helpful, but I still can’t assume he will act the same way at my house as he did at her house.

To help a new dog be on his best behavior, prevention can go a long way.

Potty training a dog – a few reminders

1. Just because a dog is housebroken in one home does not mean he is housebroken in another.

Dogs are contextual. It’s kind of like how I might not recognize my dentist if I run into him at the grocery store. He’s out of context.

2. Dogs don’t always ask to go outside or show that they need to go.

Some dog owners assume that a new dog will go to the door and whine when he has to go potty or that he will paw, pace or bark. I’ve had dozens of dogs in my home. Most do not ask to go out (or maybe I’m not getting the message). Do yourself and the dog a favor and head outside at least every two hours.

3. Male and female dogs could mark in your house.

Keep all new dogs on a leash and near you for a few days so you can supervise. Marking is not the same as having an accident. I’m not sure we humans know exactly what dogs communicate through marking, but we do know it sends a message to the other animals in the environment – I’m here! I think of it as a Facebook update.

4. If the dog peed outside right away but hasn’t pooped yet, just assume he still has to go!

Take him back outside every 15 minutes or so until he goes or head out for a walk to give him enough time to go. I notice a lot of smaller dogs will poop in the house unless you take them on at least a 20-minute walk.

5. Unless the dog is in his kennel, take him outside at least every two hours.

That way you will prevent accidents. It’s totally reasonable to expect a new dog not to have any accidents at all – as long as you are doing a good job getting him out often enough!

6. If the dog is not in his kennel, he should be under your direct supervision.

I recommend keeping the dog leashed at all times for at least the first three days.

7. Remember not to get mad if the dog does have an accident.

You don’t want the dog to be afraid to pee in front of the crazy lady who yells. Just get him out more often and reward him when he does what you want.

8. Slowly increase the dog’s freedom over time.

9. Go for lots of walks so the dog has plenty of opportunities to relieve himself outside.

Preventing dog fights – common sense

Barkley seems like a friendly guy, and I was not worried about any fights between him and my mutt Ace. Still, I know it’s best to take precautions. Here are some basics so all goes smoothly between your new dog and your other dog.

1. Don’t allow direct eye contact between the dogs when they first meet.

Try to keep one dog turned to the side or just move your own body in between them as needed.

2. Distract one or both dogs if there is any tension.

When dogs are tense, they are more likely to growl or snap. Sometimes a dog will tense up and then decide to do a friendly play bow, but I still like to ease the tension to keep the excitement levels low. I noticed Ace getting a little tense when Barkley was super excited, so I made sure to ease that tension by giving Ace a butt scratch and some friendly pats on his side. I also blocked Barkley from jumping all over Ace. He loves Ace!

3. Don’t allow the dogs to get too excited.

Playful excitement isn’t necessarily bad, but it can easily escalate from play fighting and chasing to an actual fight. I prevent this by allowing basically no playing in the house. No rough housing. No chasing games. No tug of war. No wrestling. Instead, I encourage the dogs to hang out quietly on their beds. Of course, we play from time to time indoors but I keep the energy levels controlled and I initiate the play.

4. Keep the new dog on a leash at all times.

Barkley has his leash on whenever he is not in his kennel. That way I can keep him near me at all times and also pull him back if he is bothering Ace or my cats. Sometimes a baby gate can also work well for creating a barrier between the dogs that still allows them to interact a bit. It’s still important to supervise the dogs whenever they are not in their kennels.

5. Trust your cat’s judgement of the dog.

My cats are used to dogs, and they can read a dog’s body language better than I can. I trust their judgement. They were not fazed at all when they met Barkley. They immediately claimed his blanket and checked out his kennel and toys. They had no need to jump to higher ground or to run and hide. They hung out at his level and didn’t even leave the room. If, on the other hand, my cats were tense, extra vocal or hanging out on furniture higher than the dog, I would know to take extra precautions.

6. Don’t get upset if your own dog growls at the new dog if it is an appropriate correction. 

Ace is generally laid-back and submissive, and I trust him around other dogs. It’s rare that he will snap or growl, but when he does it is usually appropriate. I do my best to keep Barkley in line and pull him away whenever he is getting too excited for Ace. But at one point in the last few days, Ace growled at Barkley to tell him he’d had enough pestering. Dogs communicate by growling, and there was nothing wrong with Ace telling Barkley to knock it off.

7. Pick up all toys and bowls so there is no resource guarding.

It’s possible for a dog to guard anything he sees as valuable. Most often a dog will guard toys, bones, food, other dogs or his owner. But a dog could guard pretty much anything like his bed, his kennel, a blanket, the couch, a certain room or even his water dish. Make it easier on yourself and pick up anything you can that either dog might decide to guard. Feed the dogs in separate rooms or in their kennels until you know there is no food aggression.

When the new dog is in his crate, that’s the perfect time to provide both dogs with special treats and chew toys. Some of Ace’s favorites are Nylabones, Kongs and  bully sticks.

What tips do you have for potty training an adult dog or preventing confrontations between the dogs?

Introducing Barkley!



Wednesday 8th of February 2012

Hi Lindsay,

Thanks for the tips! We just brought a new dog home last weekend, and the opposite scenario from #6 is happening. Our first dog does not growl at the new dog, but the new dog will occasionally growl at him. We have them on a crate and rotate routine, and when he is out of the crate and in her line of sight, she will sometimes growl at him, even if he's not looking at or near her. When this happens, we call him over to another part of the house, which stops her growling. Is it okay to let her growl?


Tuesday 10th of January 2012

I used some of these tips when taking one of our dogs to dinner on Sunday night. He was excited to be going somewhere so we had a quick walk, potty break before heading in to dinner.


Lindsay Stordahl

Tuesday 10th of January 2012

Glad I could help! :)


Thursday 5th of January 2012

"I think of it as a Facebook update."

Yes yes yes. I love that.

I was shocked when one of my female fosters began marking -- I had no idea at the time that they did that!

Lindsay Stordahl

Friday 6th of January 2012

Yeah, I find that a lot of people don't know that.


Thursday 5th of January 2012

Congrats on the new rescue pup!

I definitely agree with #7 for potty training - don't get mad or go crazy when the dog has an accident. I've seen this frustration in first time foster parents or adopters. It's highly likely that the accident is caused by the new surroundings/nerves and isn't a forever habit.

Lindsay Stordahl

Friday 6th of January 2012

Thanks for commenting, Carly! :)

If a dog has an accident, I blame myself for not getting her outside quick enough!


Thursday 5th of January 2012

Good tips! I wish I'd read this before we brought Tarski home. We had a few accidents because he didn't tell us, and we weren't quite so on the ball with taking him out...

One thing we did (a tip that we got from Cesar Millan's show) is we went for a walk before even stepping foot in the house. We had stopped a few times on the road and took short breaks to walk around (it was a 2 hour drive), but once we got home we took a 30 minute fast paced walk. According to Cesar this is a good way to bond with your new dog, and it drains them of some of their excess energy before you step in to a new environment. I don't have anything to compare that to, but Tarski seemed to calm down a lot on that walk.

Once we got in, we let him explore, but used that to teach the boundaries right away -- by the end of the night he knew not to go in the kitchen or our bedroom!

(Finally, not that this tidbit is relevant to bringing home a new dog, but not all dogs poop daily -- specifically, many raw fed dogs will poop about once every 36 hours. ;)


Friday 6th of January 2012

Good points. We were lucky I guess, because we didn't know enough about collars at the time. We walked him with the collar that he came with, which he couldn't slip out of, but he also didn't try to bolt. Although we didn't have a bond then, we (the turkey providers), were much so much better than scary things like manhole covers and non-turkey providing people, that he walked at his best heel ever on that walk -- I think if he could've velcroed himself to our legs, he would have!! :)

Lindsay Stordahl

Friday 6th of January 2012

I follow Cesar's tip on going for a long walk beforehand, too. I've done that with every single foster dog and before that, I did it with Ace. The day I adopted Ace we went for a long walk in a park before we even got home. It's wonderful advice, assuming you have good control of the dog. There's always that chance the dog could slip away and without any kind of a bond with you, the dog is more likely to freak out and bolt. So make sure the dog is at least wearing tags, and a microchip is even better. And use a collar the dog is the least likely to slip out of. This is different for every dog. Cosmo my American Eskimo foster could slip out of a martingale pretty easily. A dog with a big head like Ace does great with a martingale or a choke collar. For Barkley's first walk, I had him on a leather buckle collar that was not loose enough for him to slip out of.